Is your husband as hot as McDreamy? Does he forget to put the toilet seat down? You may not be able to tell him, but you can tell us! (We’ll keep your answers confidential—promise!)  Check out the results in an upcoming issue of Parenting.

1.	Who's the better parent?
		I am.		We're both great!
		He is.		Neither of us are so hot

2.	What do you do less now that you have kids?
		Have sex		Fight (who has time?)
		Go out		Agree

3.	If you could change one thing about your husband, what would it be?
		What he looks like		His parenting style
		His job		How good in bed he is

4.	How hot do you think your husband is?
		Right up there with McDreamy and McSteamy.		He's good looking enough for me!
		He's a cute dad.		He's got a great personality.

5.	What hubby blunder is yours most guilty of?
		Not cleaning up		Not helping enough with the kids
		Forgetting my birthday/our anniversary		Not putting the toilet seat down

6.	How often do you say, "I love you" to each other?
		At least once a day		At least once a month
		At least once a week		Who remembers?

7.	What does it take for you to forgive your husband after he makes a big mistake?
		Just one puppy dog face and I'm putty.		Time
		One kind gesture, like giving me a card or doing something without being asked.		A miracle

8.	How do you feel about your husband's family?
		They're great! I'm so lucky.		They're okay-we stay out of each other's ways and it's fine.
		They're just like my own-good for the most part, but they can drive me crazy at times.		They're the bane of my existence.

9.	What's your husband's most annoying habit?
		Snoring		Tuning me out while we talk
		Channel-surfing		Falling asleep after sex

10.	When your kid wants ten more minutes at the playground, an extra scoop of ice cream, or another go-round on the carousel, who's more likely to give him his way?
		You		Your husband

11.	What's your husband's parenting style?
		Fun and games. My kid loves goofing around with him, but that makes me the bad guy when it comes to discipline.
		Balanced. He leaves plenty of time for fun, but knows when he needs to assert some authority.
		Too serious. He's so concerned about our kid doing the right thing that he hardly lets her behave like a kid.

12.	What's your husband's better quality?
		His body		His mind

13.	Is your husband your best friend?
		Yes		No

14.	Which do you wish your husband did more often?
		Housework		Romancing

15.	Are you more or less jealous of other women now that you and your husband have kids?
		More, the stakes are higher now.		It's about the same: I was never jealous much.
		Less, who has the time?		It's about the same: I'm as jealous as ever!

16.	What's your husband more skilled at?
		Being a dad.		He's equally talented at both.
		Being a romantic partner.

17.	When you talk about your husband with your friends, what are you more likely to do?
		Brag		Complain

18.	Do you think your husband deserves more credit for taking care of the kids than you give him?
		Yes		No

19.	Which TV dad is your husband most like?
		Homer Simpson from "The Simpsons"-not the swiftest, but very lovable.
		Ray Barone from "Everybody Loves Raymond"-he's the breadwinner, but he doesn't do much childcare or housework.
		Allan Harper from "Two and a Half Men"-a bit nervous about how well he's raising his kid, but works hard and is very involved in his kid's life.

Thank you!